The greatest gift you have to give your children is you.
When you talk to your child, mostly listen.
Always give in to the urge to hug your child.
Setting limits is good for children. They'll complain, but what they'll feel is relief.
You'll never be an 'Absolutely Perfect Parent'. Be a 'Good Enough Parent'.
Ask your child what she likes most to do with you. Do that more often.
Forgive yourself for the mistakes you have made.
Be flexible with rules.
Tell your children, - 'I love you just the way you are'
If you feel overwhelmed, just start doing one thing at a time.
Give your children opportunities to make real contribution to the family.
Don't compare your children to others. Value them each for their own gifts.
Little instructions you can learn from your children : Play more, Be curious. Get all wrapped up in what you are doing. Even the little things can bring you pleasure.
Treat your children the way you wish you had been treated when you were a youngster.
Show your respect by introducing your child by name to everyone who comes over.
Be your child's biggest fan.
Tell your child, 'My life is so much better because you are here'.
When your child is angry, say out loud, 'I think you need a big hug' and then give it.
Having your house look like House Beautiful isn't a good use of time. Settle for House pretty clean.
Get up early and watch the sunrise together.
Exercise together.
Build an extended family, whether its made up of relatives or friends.
Plant a tree together.
Spend time together in the library.
Ask questions that begins with 'How', 'Why' and 'Tell me about', These encourage children to speak up.
Build your children's self-esteem by letting them solve most of their own problems.
Go to a pond and skip stones.